Mentally he has proven to be far tougher than I expected. He has been a champ. Or perhaps the word superhero would be more appropriate! He doesn't like going to the hospital, he doesn't like being poked and prodded, and he doesn't like seeing all of the doctors. (Although now that we have a treatment plan in place has has stopped asking us if we are going to "offer him to another doctor"). But he understands that he can't eat or drink before anaesthesia, and he's not really complaining about it. We have talked to him a little bit about what is going on, but it hasn't been a serious, sit-down-and-look-grave type of conversation. We have been throwing information into normal conversation.
For example, at dinner this week I said, "Oh, Des, you know how you're going to get medicine to treat the sickness in your eye? It might make your hair fall out." Desmond took it in stride and we kind of casually told him that when that happens, we can shave his head and Daddy might shave his head, too...Des and Regan ran with that, and I'll post a picture of Jeremy's shaved head soon!
Why yes, he does wear this outfit to the hospitals! |
He seems to be moving along with life as normal, although I know that this is affecting him in ways we haven't seen yet. I figure that when treatment begins things will actually calm down a bit; we intend to keep him in his daycare one day/week, as long as his health allows, and Monday will be our regularly scheduled treatment days. At that point we will be able to work with the social worker to make sure we're addressing the emotional aspects of this, and I'm also hopeful we can make some new friends in the MSTI community that have children who have been through this, so that Des has friends who have an idea what he is going through.
Desmond's hospital backpack, filled with goodies. Thanks Uncle Josh! |
2 comments:
Oh, what a little trooper! So glad to hear he's taking it in his stride. That is a whole lot of procedures for one day, although I guess in some ways it's good to get them all over with at once. Will keep Des in my thoughts and prayers today.
I don't know what to say other than I am amazed by your strength and courage! You and Jeremy are amazing parents and your babies are lucky to have you!
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